PSSD Dating Site?

[warrior]

Hello!
I suffer from bad PSSD since 3 years ( took zoloft for 16 months) and i follow this forum for a long time now. My symptoms are all PSSD-Symptoms you can imagine.I don't wanna sound pessimistic but the PSSD had sadly bad influenced my life. I was sooo depressed with that situation that i lost my job, my girlfriend and a lot of friends. But i'm not here to cry and i will fight till the end of this horror. I'really changed my lifestyle and i'm trying to do all best possible.

A point which is really hard for me is to meet a new partner. ANd i think a lot of PSSD-People suffer from this. Anxiety and panic about how a partner will react when he or she finds out. I see that this Forum becomes bigger and bigger i'd thought about how a PSSD Dating-Site would help us.

The situation is hard but i think that a good relationship could really improve our life quality!

For sure the anonymity must be safe, not like a open social network.


What do you guys and girls think about it?

[fema4psyciatrists]

Yes definately. Where are the women at?

[Whyme11]

Yes definately. Where are the women at?

In SA forum.jk

[JayR]

The cost to main that kind of site would be steep, we could suggest it to others but my guess would be only a few (if that) would have the know-how and willingness to put it together. To get specific people there and maintain parameters to keep the site safe from another world of creeps and Psycho's considering the precursors to PSSD anyhow. It might benefit us though to know in more, personal form that there are others in the market...how many would really go on though knowing their own deficits and more importantly, the lack of self-confidence in BOTH Genders affected by PSSD may lead to reluctance even with knowledge of the (hypothetical) sites existence.

[lukepssd6years]

PSSD dating site - definetly as it it could be life changing

[Kk88]

Totally get what you’re saying about anxiety around meeting people. BUT there are loads of women out there who are kind and understanding and who will be that way about your PSSD. Don’t think you need to limit yourself to who you meet!

[been_too_long]

I can see your point. And the software to make such a site is easy to use and readily available. Problem I see is that our condition is so rare... I seriously doubt the number of potential users would justify the cost of setting up or maintaining the site. I also agree with something JayR said. Fact is there is lot of predators out there that would love to prey on females sufferers. Remember; this condition is different between male and female sufferers. Lot of us cant get an erection to have sex; female suffers are still able, they just lack the motivation and reward from it. There is way too many men in the world that can careless if the female enjoys it. They would use the females anxiety and possibly low self esteem as a tool against them.

Even without such a site, don't give up hope fellas. I found an incredible woman that is understanding and supportive of my situation. Our relationship is the greatest thing to EVER happen to me. It is possible for you to find one too. Sex is a big part of a relation but it is not the only rewarding part. You still have something to offer the right woman. Besides... the penis is not the only way to satisfy a woman (yes a bit over the personal line but it is what it is)

[Pep19]

It's a good idea, it's a nice idea, those suffering from pssd like us it's impossible to have a woman, so instead you could find and have some love that helps.
After pssd I'm alone.

[raven100]

I don't think it's the best idea, there would be the same frustration about not being able to function as you would like and I think there might be additional insecurity over the fact that your partner wouldn't really have a sexual attraction to you either. It is harder no doubt post PSSD, and I haven't been as successful with women but I think that stems from my lack of confidence rather than the PSSD itself. There are a lot of girls who would be understanding and you don't have to be functioning at 100% to please a woman!

[Pep19]

I don't think it's the best idea, there would be the same frustration about not being able to function as you would like and I think there might be additional insecurity over the fact that your partner wouldn't really have a sexual attraction to you either. It is harder no doubt post PSSD, and I haven't been as successful with women but I think that stems from my lack of confidence rather than the PSSD itself. There are a lot of girls who would be understanding and you don't have to be functioning at 100% to please a woman!

Who is that woman who would be with you after telling him you got pssd?